People ruin their lives by their own foolishness and then are angry at the LORD.
Proverbs 19:3

When things are going well for you, be glad, and when trouble comes, just remember: God sends both happiness and trouble; you never know what is going to happen next.
Ecclesiastes 7:14

Then his wife said to him, “Do you still hold fast your integrity? Curse God and die!” But he said to her, “You speak as one of the foolish women speaks. Shall we indeed accept good from God and not accept adversity?” In all this Job did not sin with his lips. Job 2:9-10

We can rejoice, too, when we run into problems and trials, for we know that they help us develop endurance. And endurance develops strength of character, and character strengthens our confident hope of salvation.And this hope will not lead to disappointment. For we know how dearly God loves us, because he has given us the Holy Spirit to fill our hearts with his love. Romans 5:3-5

Proverbs 3
New American Standard Bible
The Rewards of Wisdom

1My son, do not forget my teaching,
But let your heart keep my commandments;
2For length of days and years of life
And peace they will add to you.

3Do not let kindness and truth leave you;
Bind them around your neck,
Write them on the tablet of your heart.

4So you will find favor and good repute
In the sight of God and man.

5Trust in the LORD with all your heart
And do not lean on your own understanding.

6In all your ways acknowledge Him,
And He will make your paths straight.

7Do not be wise in your own eyes;
Fear the LORD and turn away from evil.

8It will be healing to your body
And refreshment to your bones.

9Honor the LORD from your wealth
And from the first of all your produce;

10So your barns will be filled with plenty
And your vats will overflow with new wine.

11My son, do not reject the discipline of the LORD
Or loathe His reproof,

12For whom the LORD loves He reproves,
Even as a father corrects the son in whom he delights.

13How blessed is the man who finds wisdom
And the man who gains understanding.

14For her profit is better than the profit of silver
And her gain better than fine gold.

15She is more precious than jewels;
And nothing you desire compares with her.

16Long life is in her right hand;
In her left hand are riches and honor.

17Her ways are pleasant ways
And all her paths are peace.

18She is a tree of life to those who take hold of her,
And happy are all who hold her fast.

19The LORD by wisdom founded the earth,
By understanding He established the heavens.

20By His knowledge the deeps were broken up
And the skies drip with dew.

21My son, let them not vanish from your sight;
Keep sound wisdom and discretion,

22So they will be life to your soul
And adornment to your neck.

23Then you will walk in your way securely
And your foot will not stumble.

24When you lie down, you will not be afraid;
When you lie down, your sleep will be sweet.

25Do not be afraid of sudden fear
Nor of the onslaught of the wicked when it comes;

26For the LORD will be your confidence
And will keep your foot from being caught.

27Do not withhold good from those to whom it is due,
When it is in your power to do it.

28Do not say to your neighbor, “Go, and come back,
And tomorrow I will give it,”
When you have it with you.

29Do not devise harm against your neighbor,
While he lives securely beside you.

30Do not contend with a man without cause,
If he has done you no harm.

31Do not envy a man of violence
And do not choose any of his ways.

32For the devious are an abomination to the LORD;
But He is intimate with the upright.

33The curse of the LORD is on the house of the wicked,
But He blesses the dwelling of the righteous.

34Though He scoffs at the scoffers,
Yet He gives grace to the afflicted.

35The wise will inherit honor,
But fools display dishonor.