“When the World Blinds the Heart”

There is a dangerous place a person can reach—not overnight, but slowly.

Not by rebellion at first, but by distraction.

A place where the heart becomes so invested in the things of this world that truth grows dim.

The Bible calls this being blinded.

1. The Subtle Nature of Worldly Blindness

Blindness does not begin with darkness—it begins with focus.

Scripture warns us:

“The god of this age has blinded the minds of unbelievers, so that they cannot see the light of the gospel.” (2 Corinthians 4:4)

Notice this: blindness comes when the world becomes our lens.

It starts innocently:

Chasing approval

Chasing success

Chasing attention

Chasing comfort

Soon, God’s voice becomes quieter—not because He stopped speaking, but because other voices became louder.

Jesus warned:

“The eye is the lamp of the body. If your eyes are healthy, your whole body will be full of light.” (Matthew 6:22)

What you fix your eyes on shapes what you become.

2. When the Heart Goes Too Deep

The Bible never says the world is harmless. It says it is deceptive.

“Do not love the world or anything in the world… For everything in the world—the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life—comes not from the Father.” (1 John 2:15–16)

When a person goes too deep:

Conviction fades

Compromise feels normal

Sin is justified

Holiness feels extreme

What once disturbed the conscience now barely registers.

Paul warned Timothy:

“Some people, eager for money, have wandered from the faith and pierced themselves with many griefs.” (1 Timothy 6:10)

The tragedy is not the chasing—it is what is lost along the way.

3. The Cost of Gaining the World

Jesus asked one of the most sobering questions in Scripture:

“What good is it for someone to gain the whole world, yet forfeit their soul?” (Mark 8:36)

The world never tells you what it costs.

It only shows you what it offers.

But every idol demands payment:

Peace

Integrity

Relationship with God

“There is a way that appears to be right, but in the end it leads to death.” (Proverbs 14:12)

Worldly chasing promises life but delivers emptiness.

4. Warning Signs of Spiritual Blindness

Scripture gives us warning signs—not to shame us, but to wake us.

Loss of hunger for God’s Word (Amos 8:11)

Prayer becoming rare or rushed (Luke 18:1)

Justifying what God once corrected (Isaiah 5:20)

Loving comfort more than obedience (2 Timothy 3:4)

Jesus spoke directly to this condition:

“You say, ‘I am rich; I have acquired wealth and do not need a thing.’ But you do not realize that you are wretched, pitiful, poor, blind and naked.” (Revelation 3:17)

5. God’s Mercy Even in Warning

Here is the hope: God warns because He loves.

“Those whom I love I rebuke and discipline.” (Revelation 3:19)

No one is too deep for God to reach.

The prodigal son went far—but when he came to his senses, the Father was still waiting (Luke 15:17–20).

Blindness can be healed.

“Turn to Me and be saved, all you ends of the earth.” (Isaiah 45:22)

6. A Call to Wake Up

The Bible’s call is urgent:

“Wake up, sleeper, rise from the dead, and Christ will shine on you.” (Ephesians 5:14)

This is not condemnation.

This is an invitation.

An invitation to:

Lift your eyes again

Loosen your grip on the world

Return your heart to God

“Seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness.” (Matthew 6:33)

7. Ending With Choice

As this year ends, Scripture places a choice before us:

“Choose this day whom you will serve.” (Joshua 24:15)

The world will always promise more.

God offers life.

“The world and its desires pass away, but whoever does the will of God lives forever.” (1 John 2:17)

Closing Prayer

Lord, open our eyes where we have been blinded.

Pull our hearts back when we have gone too deep.

Break every attachment that competes with You.

Teach us to desire what lasts, not what fades.

Let us leave the world behind and follow You fully.

Amen.

“When Human Validation Fails, God’s Truth Sustains Us”

As we come to the close of this year, we pause—not just to count days, but to examine hearts.

This is a season of reflection. A season of honesty. A season where God often reveals what we leaned on instead of Him.

For many, this year has exposed a painful pattern: seeking validation from people—especially from men—and being left disappointed, confused, or wounded.

This message is not about blame.

It is about realignment.

1. The God-Given Desire to Be Affirmed

The desire to be seen, loved, and valued is not wrong. God created us with emotions and relational needs.

“The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” (Psalm 34:18)

That verse tells us something important: God expects hearts to feel.

What becomes dangerous is when we look to people to fill what only God can sustain.

Instead of resting in God’s voice, we begin to ask:

“Do they notice me?”

“Am I enough for them?”

“Why wasn’t I chosen?”

And slowly, approval replaces peace.

2. The Limitations of Human Validation

Scripture is very honest about the limits of people:

“Do not put your trust in princes, in human beings, who cannot save.” (Psalm 146:3)

Even good people have limits.

Even kind people change.

Even loving people disappoint.

Jeremiah 17:7–8 gives us the contrast:

“Blessed is the one who trusts in the Lord, whose confidence is in Him. They will be like a tree planted by the water.”

When trust is rooted in people, our emotions rise and fall with their behavior.

When trust is rooted in God, we remain steady—even when people fail.

3. Disappointment as Divine Redirection

Disappointment is not always rejection.

Sometimes it is redirection.

In the Bible, God often allowed disappointment to draw people closer to Him.

Consider Hannah (1 Samuel 1). She was misunderstood, overlooked, and deeply grieved. But instead of chasing approval, she poured her heart out before God.

“In her deep anguish Hannah prayed to the Lord, weeping bitterly.” (1 Samuel 1:10)

God met her in that place—not with shame, but with compassion.

Your disappointment this year may be the very place where God is inviting you to depend on Him more deeply.

4. God’s Validation Is Secure and Unchanging

Human approval must be earned and maintained.

God’s approval is given by grace.

“See what great love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God.” (1 John 3:1)

Notice the word lavished. God does not give love sparingly.

Romans 8:38–39 reminds us:

“Nothing… will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.”

No silence.

No rejection.

No disappointment can remove God’s love from your life.

5. Knowing Who You Are in God

When validation comes from people, identity becomes unstable.

When identity comes from God, it becomes anchored.

The Bible says:

You are created intentionally (Psalm 139:13–14)

You are known completely (Psalm 139:1–2)

You are loved faithfully (Lamentations 3:22–23)

Jesus Himself modeled this. Before He performed miracles, before public ministry, God spoke:

“You are My Son, whom I love; with You I am well pleased.” (Luke 3:22)

God’s approval came before Jesus proved anything.

6. Ending the Year With Surrender

As this year ends, God invites us to release what failed us.

Release:

The need for constant affirmation

The habit of measuring worth by attention

The pain of unmet expectations

And receive this truth:

“The Lord will fulfill His purpose for me; Your love, Lord, endures forever.” (Psalm 138:8)

7. A Call to the New Year

Let the new year begin with this foundation:

God is your source

God is your validator

God is your refuge

“Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding.” (Proverbs 3:5)

When God becomes your source, disappointment loses its power.

When God defines your worth, rejection no longer defines you.

Closing Prayer

Lord, as we end this year, we return our hearts to You.

Forgive us for placing our worth in people instead of Your truth.

Heal every place where disappointment has wounded us.

Teach us to rest in Your voice above all others.

As we step into the new year, anchor us in Your love, Your promises, and Your presence.

Amen.

“A LIFE THAT DOES NOT GLORIFY GOD”

End-of-Year Warning Sermon

Opening Exhortation

In all that they do, they do not give glory to Him.

Their pursuits are selfish.

Their plans exclude God.

Their successes praise themselves.

And their hearts are far from the One who gave them breath.

This is not a message for others.

This is a mirror for all of us.

As the year draws to its close, heaven pauses—not because God forgets time, but because we are running out of excuses.

1. The Purpose of Humanity

Scripture is clear:

Humanity was created for God’s glory, not personal ambition.

“Whether therefore ye eat, or drink, or whatsoever ye do, do all to the glory of God.” (1 Corinthians 10:31, KJV)

Yet many live as though life’s purpose is:

Comfort over obedience

Success over holiness

Pleasure over righteousness

When God is removed from the center, self becomes the idol.

And an idol—no matter how respectable—always invites judgment.

2. Selfish Living Is Silent Rebellion

Many say, “I am not against God.”

But neutrality toward God is not innocence.

A life that ignores God is a life that rejects His authority.

Jesus said, “Whoever is not with Me is against Me.”

Self-centered living may look harmless, but in heaven it is recorded as rebellion without repentance.

Prayers become rare

Conviction becomes dull

Sin becomes normalized

God becomes optional

And when God is optional, judgment becomes inevitable.

3. Judgment Is Not a Myth

We live in an age that mocks judgment and celebrates tolerance—but God has not changed.

Scripture warns:

There is a day of reckoning

There is an accounting for every life

There is a harvest for every seed

“Be not deceived; God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap.” (Galatians 6:7, KJV)

Judgment is not cruelty.

Judgment is justice delayed, not denied.

God is patient—but patience has a limit.

4. End-of-Year Warning: Time Is a Witness

This year will never return.

Its days will testify either:

That God was honored

Or that He was ignored

Time does not erase sin.

Time only records it.

The end of the year is not just a calendar change—it is a spiritual checkpoint.

What will this year say about your heart?

Were your goals surrendered to God?

Were your choices shaped by His will?

Did your life point others to Him?

Or did you live for yourself alone?

5. The Mercy Still Available

Here is the mercy:

If God were finished with you, you would not feel this warning.

Conviction is proof of grace.

“God is not willing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance.”

Judgment is coming—but repentance is still open.

God is not asking for perfection.

He is asking for surrender.

6. Call to Repentance

Now is the time—not next year.

Not after success.

Not after comfort.

Repentance is not regret.

It is a change of direction.

From self to God

From pride to humility

From sin to obedience

A life that glorifies God begins the moment self dies.

Closing Warning and Hope

If you continue living only for yourself,

If God remains excluded from your decisions,

If repentance is postponed—

Then judgment will not ask for explanations.

It will ask for obedience that never came.

But if today you turn back,

If today you surrender,

If today you give God glory—

Mercy will meet you before judgment ever does.

Final Appeal

This year is ending.

Your soul is eternal.

Do not enter a new year carrying old rebellion.

Give God the glory—now.

“Counting It All as Loss: A New Beginning in Christ”

End-of-Year / New Start Sermon (Looking toward 2026)

Opening

As we stand at the edge of a new year, we naturally look back.

We measure gains and losses.

Successes and failures.

What we achieved—and what slipped through our hands.

But Scripture invites us to measure life by a different scale.

“I count everything as loss compared to the surpassing richness of knowing Christ.”

— Paul’s confession, not from weakness, but from clarity.

Tonight, we are not just closing a year.

We are being invited into a new way of valuing life as we step into 2026.

1. Christ Is the Only True Richness

The world tells us richness is found in:

What we possess

What we accomplish

Who knows our name

But the gospel tells us something radically different:

Christ is the treasure.

Not what He gives.

Not what we gain through Him.

Him.

Everything else—status, comfort, recognition, even good things—becomes small when placed beside the greatness of knowing Him.

Paul did not say these things were evil.

He said they were loss in comparison.

When Christ becomes everything, lesser things lose their power to define us.

2. Christ Is Not Distant—He Lives in Us

This is not a call to chase a far-off Savior.

The mystery of the gospel is this:

Christ lives in us.

Not just in churches.

Not just in moments of worship.

But in ordinary lives, ordinary days, ordinary obedience.

The same Christ we treasure is the Christ who:

Strengthens us

Corrects us

Comforts us

Sends us

So as we step into 2026, we are not striving to reach Him.

We are learning to live from Him.

3. We Are Fed by God’s Living Word

Scripture reminds us:

Man does not live by bread alone,

but by every living word that proceeds from God.

Bread sustains the body.

But God’s Word sustains the soul.

In 2025, many of us were fed constantly:

By noise

By opinions

By fear

By endless distraction

And yet we were still hungry.

This new year calls us back to the only voice that truly gives life.

Not just reading Scripture—but receiving it.

Not just hearing God’s Word—but obeying it.

4. A Call to Holy Detachment

As we begin 2026, Christ invites us to a fresh detachment.

Not because the world is evil,

but because it is temporary.

Detachment does not mean abandoning responsibilities.

It means refusing to let worldly cares, pursuits, or even relationships take the place of Christ.

We love people best when we love Christ most.

We handle success wisely when it no longer owns us.

We endure loss faithfully when Christ remains our portion.

Anything that competes with Christ must be laid down.

5. A New Beginning

So tonight, we do not merely make resolutions.

We make a confession:

Christ is enough.

Christ is supreme.

Christ is our life.

As we step into 2026, may we count everything else as loss—not out of bitterness, but out of joy.

Because when we have Christ,

we have already gained everything.

Closing Prayer (optional)

Lord Jesus,

As we leave one year behind and step into another,

we release what has distracted us,

what has ruled us,

what has replaced You in our hearts.

Be our treasure.

Be our life.

Be our daily bread.

We count all else as loss,

for the surpassing richness of knowing You.

Amen.

if you love this world, the love of the Father is not in you

“If Anyone Loves the World”

A Solemn Warning to a Godless, Comfortable Generation

Text: 1 John 2:15–17

“Do not love the world or the things in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him.”

I. The Most Offensive Sentence in Comfortable Christianity

This verse is not gentle.

It is not negotiable.

It is not symbolic.

It is absolute.

John does not say:

“Be careful not to love the world too much”

“Balance God and the world”

“Love God first, then enjoy the world”

He says:

“If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him.”

This is not about losing reward.

This is about not belonging to God at all.

And this verse lands like a hammer upon a generation that has everything—except God.

II. Singapore: A Modern Parable of Prosperity Without God

Singapore is admired globally:

Stability

Efficiency

Safety

Financial security

World-class education

Career pathways mapped from childhood

Yet Jesus once asked:

“What does it profit a man to gain the whole world and forfeit his soul?” (Mark 8:36)

This is a nation that:

Trains children to chase grades

Trains adults to chase careers

Trains families to chase property

Trains everyone to chase financial security

And God is often reduced to:

A weekend accessory

A crisis hotline

A blessing vending machine

Not Lord.

Not King.

Not Master.

III. The Three Loves That Reveal a Godless Heart

1 John 2:16 defines the world clearly:

“For all that is in the world—the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life—is not from the Father.”

1. The Lust of the Flesh – Living for Comfort

This generation worships comfort:

Air-conditioned lives

Convenience

Pleasure

Avoidance of suffering

Yet Jesus said:

“If anyone would come after Me, let him deny himself, take up his cross, and follow Me.”

A Christianity that cannot suffer is not Christianity—it is self-help.

2. The Lust of the Eyes – Never Satisfied

Scrolling.

Comparing.

Upgrading.

Wanting.

More money.

Better job.

Better lifestyle.

Better image.

Yet Scripture says:

“The eye is never satisfied with seeing.” (Ecclesiastes 1:8)

A generation that always wants more has never understood contentment in God.

3. The Pride of Life – Security Without God

This is the greatest idol in Singapore.

“I am secure.”

“I am prepared.”

“I have savings.”

“I have insurance.”

“I have plans.”

James rebukes this spirit:

“You do not know what tomorrow will bring… You ought to say, ‘If the Lord wills.’” (James 4:14–15)

When money becomes your security, God becomes unnecessary.

IV. God Is Not Competing for Space in Your Heart

Hear this clearly:

God does not share the throne.

Jesus said:

“No one can serve two masters… You cannot serve God and money.” (Matthew 6:24)

Not should not.

Cannot.

You may claim faith.

You may attend church.

You may use Christian language.

But if your deepest trust is in:

Salary

CPF

Property

Career ladder

Retirement plan

Then money is your god.

And God does not accept second place.

V. The Terrifying Truth: God May Let You Have It All

The scariest judgment is not poverty.

It is prosperity without repentance.

Romans 1 describes a frightening phrase:

“God gave them over…”

Sometimes God does not strike.

He does not interrupt.

He does not warn again.

He simply lets you succeed.

And you arrive at old age:

Financially secure

Emotionally empty

Spiritually dead

Jesus said:

“You say, ‘I am rich, I have prospered, I need nothing,’ not realizing that you are wretched, pitiable, poor, blind, and naked.” (Revelation 3:17)

VI. The World Is Passing Away—So Are You

1 John 2:17 concludes:

“The world is passing away along with its desires, but whoever does the will of God abides forever.”

Your job will end.

Your money will be left behind.

Your body will decay.

Your certificates will mean nothing.

Only one question will remain:

Did you love the world—or did you love God?

Not:

“Did you succeed?”

“Did you feel safe?”

“Did you enjoy life?”

But:

“Did you obey Me?”

VII. A Final Call to Repentance

This sermon is not for atheists.

It is for comfortable Christians.

For those who say:

“I believe in God—but…”

If you must add a “but” to God,

He is not your God.

Jesus’ final warning:

“Remember Lot’s wife.” (Luke 17:32)

She left Sodom physically

but her heart remained there

And she became a monument to this truth:

You cannot walk toward heaven while loving the world behind you.

Closing Exhortation

Singapore does not need more successful Christians.

It needs repentant ones.

Not those who say, “God bless my plans,”

but those who pray, “God destroy my plans if they oppose Yours.”

“Choose this day whom you will serve.” (Joshua 24:15)

Because if you love the world, the love of the Father is not in you.

“Who Are You Trying to Prove Holy To?”

Text: Galatians 1:10; Matthew 6:1–6; 2 Corinthians 5:9; Romans 14:4
1. The Danger of Performative Holiness


“Be careful not to practice your righteousness in front of others to be seen by them.” (Matthew 6:1)

There is a form of holiness that looks impressive—but is empty.
It prays loudly, fasts visibly, speaks Scripture fluently, and appears disciplined—yet its audience is not God.

Jesus did not warn pagans here.
He warned the religious.

The question is not:


Are you holy?
But:


Who is watching when you try to be holy?

Many believers:


Dress holiness for people


Speak holiness for reputation


Act holiness to silence critics


Perform holiness to feel superior

This is not devotion.
This is spiritual performance.
2. The Craving Behind Fake Holiness: Approval


“For am I now seeking the approval of man, or of God?” (Galatians 1:10)

At the root of false holiness is a craving:


To be admired


To be respected


To be seen as “spiritual”

Some try to prove holiness:


To pastors


To church members


To family


To social media


Even to other believers they secretly compete with

But Scripture is blunt:


“If I were still trying to please man, I would not be a servant of Christ.”

You cannot serve two audiences.

Holiness directed toward people will always drift into:


Hypocrisy


Comparison


Pride


Burnout
3. Acting Holy Is a Symptom of Forgotten Grace


“Having forgotten that he was cleansed from his former sins.” (2 Peter 1:9)

When grace fades from memory, performance takes its place.

People who act holy often:


Forget where God rescued them from


Replace gratitude with image management


Substitute obedience with appearance

True holiness flows from:


“I was forgiven much — therefore I love much.”

False holiness flows from:


“I must look righteous — or I lose value.”
4. God Is Not Impressed — He Is Searching the Heart


“Man looks on the outward appearance, but the LORD looks on the heart.” (1 Samuel 16:7)

God is not fooled by:


Raised hands


Religious vocabulary


Perfect behavior in public


Spiritual routines done for display

God asks:


Why do you obey?


Who are you trying to impress?


Are you the same when no one is watching?


Holiness that vanishes in secret was never holiness — it was theater.
5. The Fear That Drives Performance Holiness


“The fear of man brings a snare.” (Proverbs 29:25)

Acting holy often comes from fear:


Fear of rejection


Fear of exposure


Fear of not measuring up


Fear of being “less spiritual”

So we perform.
But fear-driven holiness will always collapse.

Why?
Because:


People change


Expectations increase


Applause fades

Only God’s acceptance sustains obedience.
6. The Freedom of Living Before One Audience


“So whether we are at home or away, we make it our aim to please Him.” (2 Corinthians 5:9)

The most mature believer is not the loudest,
not the strictest,
not the most visible—
but the one most content to be unseen.

Freedom comes when you settle this:


“God sees me — and that is enough.”

When God is your audience:


Obedience becomes joy


Repentance becomes honest


Holiness becomes natural


Love becomes sincere
7. A Final Question for the Soul

If no one:


Praised your obedience


Noticed your discipline


Affirmed your spirituality

Would you still follow Christ?

If the answer is no,
then holiness has become a mask.

But if the answer is yes,
then grace has truly taken root.
Closing Exhortation

Stop acting holy.
Start walking humbly.

Stop proving.
Start abiding.

You do not need to convince people you are righteous.
Christ already declared you righteous by His blood.


Live holy — not to be seen,
but because you are seen by God.

Growth

Partakers of the Divine Nature 3His divine power has given us everything we need for life and godliness through the knowledge of Him who called us by His owna glory and excellence. 4Through these He has given us His precious and magnificent promises, so that through them you may become partakers of the divine nature, now that you have escaped the corruption in the world caused by evil desires. 5For this very reason, make every effort to add to your faith virtue; and to virtue, knowledge; 6and to knowledge, self-control; and to self-control, perseverance; and to perseverance, godliness; 7and to godliness, brotherly kindness; and to brotherly kindness, love. 8For if you possess these qualities and continue to grow in them, they will keep you from being ineffective and unproductive in your knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ. 9But whoever lacks these traits is nearsighted to the point of blindness, having forgotten that he has been cleansed from his past sins. 10Therefore, brothers, strive to make your calling and election sure. For if you practice these things you will never stumble, 11and you will receive a lavish reception into the eternal kingdom of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. 

Below is an in-depth, pastoral and practical explanation of 2 Peter 1:3–11, written to help believers actually live this way, not merely admire the passage. This is a text about transformation, not information—about becoming what God has already declared us to be.

1. The Foundation: God Has Already Supplied Everything (vv. 3–4)

“His divine power has given us everything we need for life and godliness…”

This life is not self-improvement — it is God-empowered participation

Peter begins by destroying two errors:

Spiritual helplessness (“I can’t change”)

Spiritual pride (“I changed myself”)

The Christian life is neither.

It is divine power at work in human obedience.

God has already:

Given divine power

Given everything needed (not almost everything)

Given it through knowing Christ

Anchored it in precious and magnificent promises

We do not strive to become children of God.

We strive because we already are.

“Partakers of the divine nature” — what it means (and what it does NOT mean)

This does not mean we become gods.

It means:

We share in God’s moral life

We are reshaped to reflect His character

His Spirit forms Christ’s life within us

Think of iron placed in fire:

Iron remains iron

But it begins to glow with the fire’s heat

So the believer:

Remains human

But increasingly reflects God’s holiness, love, and righteousness

Escaping corruption

Corruption comes from disordered desire.

Salvation does not merely forgive sin — it reorders desire.

Christianity is not behavior modification.

It is desire transformation.

2. The Call: “Make Every Effort” (v. 5)

Grace does not cancel effort — it empowers it.

God supplies the power; believers supply the diligence.

This is not:

Earning salvation

Fear-driven performance

This is:

Love-driven obedience

Gratitude-fueled discipline

Cooperation with grace

3. The Growth Ladder: How the Christian Life Is Built (vv. 5–7)

Peter gives a progressive chain, not random virtues. Each builds on the previous.

1. Faith — the root

Faith is trust in Christ, not mere belief.

Everything else grows out of faith, not beside it.

You do not add virtues instead of faith

You add them because of faith

2. Virtue (Moral Excellence)

Virtue means moral courage — choosing what is right even when it costs.

Living this means:

Saying no when temptation is convenient

Choosing holiness when compromise is applauded

Living visibly different without arrogance

Faith that never results in virtue is only opinion.

3. Knowledge

Not head knowledge alone, but spiritual discernment.

This is:

Knowing God’s ways

Understanding truth deeply

Applying wisdom to daily decisions

A believer grows here by:

Scripture meditation

Prayerful reflection

Obedient listening

Knowledge without virtue produces pride

Virtue without knowledge produces zeal without direction

4. Self-Control

Self-control is mastery over desires, not suppression of them.

It touches:

Speech

Sexual purity

Appetite

Emotions

Digital habits

Anger and impulses

The Spirit does not remove desire — He governs it.

True freedom is not doing whatever you want, but wanting what is right.

5. Perseverance (Endurance)

This is steadfastness under pressure.

It is:

Faith that keeps walking when prayers seem unanswered

Obedience when obedience feels costly

Trust when circumstances contradict promises

Perseverance is faith stretched through suffering.

Many quit here — not because they lack faith, but because they did not expect difficulty.

6. Godliness

Godliness is God-centered living.

It is:

Awareness of God in daily life

Reverence in ordinary actions

Worship shaping conduct

Godliness is not religious performance.

It is living before God’s face.

7. Brotherly Kindness

This is affection within the family of believers.

It means:

Patience with weaknesses

Forgiveness when hurt

Bearing one another’s burdens

Choosing unity over pride

You cannot grow in godliness while despising God’s people.

8. Love (Agape)

This is the summit.

Love is self-giving, sacrificial commitment to another’s good.

It extends:

Beyond friends

Beyond family

Even toward enemies

Love is not the abandonment of holiness

Love is holiness expressed relationally

4. The Result: Fruitfulness and Clarity (vv. 8–9)

Growing believers are:

Effective

Fruitful

Spiritually clear-sighted

Stagnant believers become:

Nearsighted

Spiritually dull

Forgetful of grace

Peter’s warning is sobering:

Forgetting grace leads to careless living.

When we forget we were cleansed:

We tolerate sin

We lose urgency

We drift spiritually

5. Assurance Through Practice (vv. 10–11)

“Make your calling and election sure.”

This does not mean we earn salvation.

It means we confirm it.

Growth does not create assurance — it reveals it.

Obedience is not the root of salvation

It is the evidence of salvation

A growing life produces:

Stability (“you will never stumble”)

Confidence

Hope of a glorious entrance into God’s kingdom

Not a fearful slipping in — but a lavish welcome.

6. How a Believer Lives This Out Practically

Daily

Abide in Christ through Scripture and prayer

Choose obedience in small things

Resist known sin immediately

Weekly

Examine growth honestly

Practice intentional love toward others

Worship corporately

Lifelong

Expect suffering

Keep adding, growing, persevering

Fix hope on Christ’s kingdom, not comfort

Final Pastoral Word

This passage is not meant to burden believers —

It is meant to stabilize, strengthen, and mature them.

God has already given you everything you need.

Now, by His power, live like it.

You are not called to perfection overnight,

but to faithful, Spirit-empowered growth until the day Christ welcomes you home.

Romans 12:16 Be not wise in your own conceits.

“Be Not Wise in Your Own Eyes”

Text: Romans 12:16 (KJV)


“Be of the same mind one toward another. Mind not high things, but condescend to men of low estate. Be not wise in your own conceits.”
INTRODUCTION: THE DANGER OF THINKING YOU KNOW IT ALL

We live in an age of opinions. Everyone has a voice. Everyone has a platform. Everyone believes they are right. Knowledge has increased—but wisdom has diminished.

The Apostle Paul ends Romans 12:16 with a sober command:


“Be not wise in your own conceits.”

In simple words:
“Do not think you know it all.”

This is not merely a personality flaw—it is a spiritual danger.

Pride in the mind leads to hardness of heart.
Self-confidence replaces God-dependence.
And soon, a man may know much Scripture, yet walk far from God.
I. WHAT DOES IT MEAN TO BE “WISE IN YOUR OWN EYES”?

The phrase “own conceits” means:


Self-generated wisdom


Private conclusions without God


Confidence rooted in self, not in truth

To be wise in your own eyes is to say (even silently):


“I already know this”


“I don’t need correction”


“Others are beneath my understanding”


“My view is superior”
Scripture Interprets Scripture


Proverbs 3:7
“Be not wise in thine own eyes: fear the LORD, and depart from evil.”

Notice the contrast:


Self-wisdom vs Fear of the Lord


You cannot hold both fully at the same time

The more a man fears God, the less confident he is in himself.
II. WHY GOD OPPOSES SELF-WISDOM
1. It Exalts Self Above God


Isaiah 55:8
“For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, saith the LORD.”

When we trust our own reasoning above God’s Word, we subtly place ourselves above Him.

This was the original sin:


“Ye shall be as gods, knowing good and evil.” (Genesis 3:5)
2. It Makes a Man Unteachable


Proverbs 26:12
“Seest thou a man wise in his own conceit? there is more hope of a fool than of him.”

Why?


A fool may still listen


A proud man cannot hear

God cannot teach a heart that already thinks it knows.
3. It Divides the Body of Christ

Romans 12 is about Christian unity.

Paul connects pride of mind with:


Looking down on others


Avoiding the lowly


Seeking “high things”

Pride fractures fellowship.
Humility preserves unity.
III. CHRIST: THE PERFECT OPPOSITE OF SELF-WISE MAN

If anyone had the right to be confident in Himself—it was Jesus.

Yet Scripture says:


Philippians 2:5–7
“Let this mind be in you, which was also in Christ Jesus… he made himself of no reputation.”

Jesus:


Did not assert His rights


Did not demand honor


Did not cling to position


Walked with fishermen, sinners, children, and the rejected

True wisdom descends.
False wisdom always elevates itself.
IV. SIGNS YOU MAY BE WISE IN YOUR OWN SIGHT

Let us examine ourselves honestly:


You feel irritated when corrected


You dismiss sermons as “too basic”


You rarely ask for counsel


You assume others are ignorant


You speak more than you listen


You defend yourself more than you repent


1 Corinthians 8:1
“Knowledge puffeth up, but charity edifieth.”

Knowledge without humility becomes spiritual pride.
V. GOD’S PATH TO TRUE WISDOM
1. Fear the Lord


Proverbs 9:10
“The fear of the LORD is the beginning of wisdom.”

Wisdom does not begin with intelligence.
It begins with reverence.
2. Remain Teachable


James 1:19
“Be swift to hear, slow to speak.”

A mature believer is not one who speaks the most—but one who listens the best.
3. Walk Lowly With God


Micah 6:8
“What doth the LORD require of thee… but to walk humbly with thy God?”

Humility is not thinking less of yourself—
It is thinking of yourself less.
VI. A SOLEMN WARNING


Proverbs 16:18
“Pride goeth before destruction, and an haughty spirit before a fall.”

Many have fallen not because they lacked truth—
but because they trusted themselves more than God.

God resists the proud.
But He gives grace to the humble.
CONCLUSION: A PRAYER OF THE WISE

The truly wise man prays:


“Lord, teach me.
Correct me.
Break my pride.
Save me from trusting myself.
Give me the mind of Christ.”


Romans 12:16 (again)
“Be not wise in your own conceits.”

Because the moment a man thinks he knows it all—
he has already stopped growing.
FINAL CALL

Let us come low,
walk humbly,
listen deeply,
and depend fully—
not on our wisdom,
but on God’s.

meaningless, everything is meaningless, a chasing after the wind

“VANITY OF VANITIES: A CHASING AFTER THE WIND”

Text: Ecclesiastes 1:2; 2:1–11; 12:13–14

“Vanity of vanities, saith the Preacher, vanity of vanities; all is vanity.”

(Ecclesiastes 1:2)

INTRODUCTION: THE MOST HONEST BOOK IN THE BIBLE

Ecclesiastes is Scripture’s unsanitized diagnosis of human life under the sun.

It does not flatter man. It does not entertain illusions. It tears away the lies we live by.

Solomon—the richest, wisest, most accomplished man of his generation—stands at the end of life and declares:

“I have tasted everything this world offers.

And I tell you the truth: it cannot satisfy the soul.”

The Hebrew word “vanity” (hebel) means:

Vapor

Breath

Smoke

Something that looks solid but vanishes when grasped

To chase vanity is to run after what cannot be held, to spend one’s life on what cannot last.

I. THE VANITY OF HUMAN TOIL AND CAREER

“What profit hath a man of all his labour which he taketh under the sun?”

(Ecclesiastes 1:3)

1. Work without God is a treadmill

You rise early

You labour

You grow tired

You retire

You die

And someone else inherits what you built.

“He heapeth up riches, and knoweth not who shall gather them.” (Psalm 39:6)

2. Career becomes vanity when it defines identity

“I am my job”

“I am my achievements”

“I am my productivity”

But titles die, companies collapse, economies shift.

A life spent building a name on earth ends with a name on a gravestone.

II. THE VANITY OF WEALTH AND POSSESSIONS

“He that loveth silver shall not be satisfied with silver.”

(Ecclesiastes 5:10)

1. Money promises what it cannot deliver

Security → yet fear increases

Freedom → yet bondage grows

Satisfaction → yet hunger remains

The more one owns, the more one worries.

2. Wealth cannot solve ultimate problems

Money cannot:

Buy peace

Delay death

Heal the soul

Reconcile you to God

“For we brought nothing into this world, and it is certain we can carry nothing out.” (1 Timothy 6:7)

Rich or poor, the grave levels all men.

III. THE VANITY OF PLEASURE AND ENTERTAINMENT

“I said in mine heart, Go to now, I will prove thee with mirth… and, behold, this also is vanity.”

(Ecclesiastes 2:1)

Solomon pursued:

Laughter

Wine

Music

Sexual pleasure

Luxury

Entertainment

Yet he concluded:

“Even in laughter the heart is sorrowful.” (Proverbs 14:13)

1. Pleasure distracts but never heals

It numbs pain

It delays reflection

It masks emptiness

But when silence comes, the soul still aches.

2. Pleasure must escalate to satisfy

What once thrilled soon bores.

What once sufficed soon requires more.

This is why pleasure enslaves rather than frees.

IV. THE VANITY OF HUMAN WISDOM AND KNOWLEDGE

“In much wisdom is much grief.”

(Ecclesiastes 1:18)

1. Knowledge reveals problems it cannot fix

We know more than any generation

Yet we are no happier

No more at peace

No more righteous

2. Intelligence cannot answer eternity

Wisdom can explain how things work,

but it cannot answer why we exist.

Apart from God, knowledge increases despair.

V. THE VANITY OF FAME, HONOR, AND HUMAN PRAISE

“Then I saw that all travail and all skill in work come from a man’s envy of his neighbour. This also is vanity.”

(Ecclesiastes 4:4)

1. Fame is borrowed breath

Today celebrated

Tomorrow forgotten

Eventually unknown

“Man in his pomp yet without understanding is like the beasts that perish.” (Psalm 49:20)

2. Living for applause enslaves the soul

Approval becomes addiction.

Rejection becomes devastation.

If man’s praise fills you, God’s glory empties you.

VI. THE VANITY OF TIME AND EARTHLY LIFE ITSELF

“One generation passeth away, and another generation cometh.”

(Ecclesiastes 1:4)

Life under the sun is marked by:

Repetition

Futility

Death

The sun rises, sets, rises again—

but man rises once and falls forever.

Without eternity, time becomes cruel, not meaningful.

VII. THE TURNING POINT: WHAT VANITY IS MEANT TO TEACH US

Ecclesiastes is not nihilism.

It is God’s mercy stripping away false hope.

God allows vanity so that:

We stop worshiping creation

We stop trusting ourselves

We stop building our own kingdoms

Vanity is a holy disappointment designed to lead us to God.

VIII. THE FINAL CONCLUSION: THE ONLY MEANING THAT LASTS

“Let us hear the conclusion of the whole matter: Fear God, and keep his commandments: for this is the whole duty of man.”

(Ecclesiastes 12:13)

Meaning is not found under the sun

It is found above the sun.

Only when life is lived:

Before God

For God

In submission to God

does vanity give way to purpose.

IX. CHRIST: THE ANSWER TO VANITY

Jesus entered our vanity-filled world.

He bore futility

He suffered meaninglessness

He conquered death

“I am the way, the truth, and the life.” (John 14:6)

In Christ:

Work becomes worship

Suffering becomes redemptive

Life gains eternal weight

CLOSING EXHORTATION

Do not spend your life chasing the wind.

Do not build on what burns.

Do not anchor your soul to vapor.

“Lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven.” (Matthew 6:20)

When God is central, nothing is meaningless.

When God is absent, everything is.

Final Word

Vanity is the echo of a soul made for eternity,

trying to live on earth without God.

Turn to Him. Fear Him. Trust Him.

And what was once vanity will become glory.



The book of Ecclesiastes starts out with a startling exclamation:

“‘Meaningless! Meaningless!’
says the Teacher.
‘Utterly meaningless!
Everything is meaningless’” (Ecclesiastes 1:2).

Other translations have the word vanity or futility in place of meaningless. The point is the same: Solomon in his old age has found everything in this world to be empty and void of meaning. This lament becomes the theme of the whole book.

Saying that everything is meaningless sounds depressing, but we must keep Solomon’s point of view in mind. This is found in Ecclesiastes 1:14: “I have seen all the things that are done under the sun; all of them are meaningless, a chasing after the wind.” The key phrase is under the sun, which is repeated throughout the book. Solomon is sharing an earth-bound perspective. He is only considering life “under the sun”; that is, a human life lived to the exclusion of any consideration of God. From that godless perspective, everything is indeed “meaningless.”

In the book of Ecclesiastes, Solomon discusses ten vanities—ten things that are “meaningless” when considered from the limited point of view of “under the sun.” Without God, human wisdom is meaningless (2:14–16); labor (2:18–23); amassing things (2:26); life itself (3:18–22); competition (4:4); selfish overwork (4:7–8); power and authority (4:16); greed (5:10); wealth and accolades (6:1–2); and perfunctory religion (8:10–14).

When Solomon says, “Everything is meaningless,” he did not mean that everything in the world is of zero value. Rather, his point is that all human efforts apart from God’s will are meaningless. Solomon had it all, and he had tried everything, but when he left God out of the equation, nothing satisfied him. There is purpose in life, and it is found in knowing God and keeping His commands. That’s why Solomon ends his book this way:

“Now all has been heard;
here is the conclusion of the matter:
Fear God and keep his commandments,
for this is the duty of all mankind” 

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